What to Do When You?ve Already Failed Your New Year?s Resolution

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5409231464_88d690c3ee_zNot unlike most, each year I set several New Year?s resolutions. The New Year just leaves me feeling refreshed and ready to get new things accomplished and I generally reflect those feelings in my resolutions.

This year I tried not to get too carried away with my New Year?s resolutions, my numerically focused financial goals?are a lot more realistic and attainable than the goals I set for 2014, and yet I?ve already failed miserably at one of them.

Shopping for new clothes, shoes, and accessories is one of my spending weaknesses, so I decided to set a limit for how much I could spend on this budget leak in 2015, $500 for the whole year! This was a lofty resolution considering how much I spent on this category in 2014 ($914 the last time I counted in October and there was more after that) and in year?s prior (at least 3-4 times as much as 2014).

In January I didn?t do too badly at staying on track with my resolution. But then in February I went a little crazy. I wish I could say things got better this month, but alas they didn?t. Now I haven?t tallied it up yet, but I?m almost certain I?ve overspent my yearly limit already and we?re only 25 percent through the year!

Rather than giving up completely on my resolution, here are a few things I am doing to help myself get back on track and get my spending under control.

Tally It Up

I?m going to make a detailed and itemized list of how much I?ve spent on clothes, shoes, and accessories so far this year. Many of the things I?ve purchased are not necessities, however a couple of them were. I need to make that distinction so I can avoid giving in to these impulse purchases in the future.

Re-Set My Limit

After I figure out exactly how much I?ve spent this year so far, I need to decide where I want to set my limit for the rest of the year. I don?t want to make it too easy, but I don?t want to re-set my goal too low and end up having to repeat this entire process next month.

Avoid Temptations

This year is different from last year. Last year no one in my real-life circle of friends and family knew about my debt or that I was working to get out of it. This year my parents and my best friend are aware and thus they are not the ones tempting me to spend anymore.

Shopping used to be one of the things my best friend and I always did when we visited each other, but now we focus on other things instead. Now my biggest temptation to spend money on clothes, shoes, and accessories comes from a new young (my age), fashionable co-worker. We often get to talking about clothes and trends while we are on breaks at work. This can be a real temptation for me, so I?m going to try and steer clear of these conversations whenever possible.

Remember Why I Set the Resolution

The last thing I?m going to do to keep my shopping under control is remember why I set the resolution in the first place. There are actually several reasons why I set my limit, including:

  • I don?t need any more clothes. I get rid of some that are in perfect condition each year during my closet clean out.
  • I want to allocate more money to pay off debt. This is my main focus, but I also want to increase my savings.
  • If I do meet my goal of quitting my full-time job in the near future, I won?t need a lot of business casual clothes anyhow and I?m sure I won?t want to change out of my yoga pants and t-shirts to sit at home on my computer.

If I can successfully do all of these things, I believe I can still keep my spending on clothes, shoes, and accessories to a somewhat-acceptable level for the year.


How are you doing on your goals/resolutions for the year? How many goals do you typically set for the year? How do you get back on track when you’ve not met a particular goal?



Photo courtesy of: Lindsay Sz?ch?nyi

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  1. As much as the year 2015 is not yet over, I would still try every means to achieve my new year’s resolution. I just hold the belief that my resolution is for this year, not next year or 2017. Learn is really the key in here.

    • Kayla says:

      That’s a great way to look at it Jayson. I still want to do as well as possible on the resolution that I’ve already broken. I made several resolutions for this year and so far that’s the only one I’ve really broken. The others are still going well. 🙂

  2. I didn’t make a new year’s resolution this year so I haven’t broken one! Nothing wrong with reevaluating any goals throughout the year, though.

    • Kayla says:

      I’m glad you agree with re-evaluating goals if you find yourself off-track. I’m still doing my best to keep up all of my New Year’s resolutions. I think this is the only one I’ve slipped up on (so far anyway). 🙂

  3. This is why I always encourage quarterly meetings with my clients. We are not robots and can’t always stick to plans without getting sidetracked. Sometimes life just gets in the way, but that’s why you have to constantly check in with your progress and make necessary adjustments. It’s okay to fall off track, but it’s not okay to stay off track.

    • Kayla says:

      That is a great mindset Shannon, and one that I need to remind myself a little more often. After I get off track, I sometimes have a hard time getting back on track.

  4. I’m a depressive, so I have to roll with the punches — even on my resolutions. When I lapse on any front — from frugal to diet — I just tell myself that I can’t undo it, and I can do better next time.

  5. Writing down my goals and putting the list on fridge works the best for me. I have to see them all the time, so I wouldn’t forget and even if I failed, I can start over (that’s already a step forward as well :))!

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